Welcome to the second annual

Self-Love Pole Retreat

May 14-17, 2026

Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA

Self-Love Pole is a sacred space where we come together to celebrate our bodies, our stories, and our worth. Rooted in the belief that self-love is a radical and necessary act, this community is dedicated to creating spaces where your authenticity is honored and valued.

The theme of this year’s retreat is “Aligned: A Journey to Radical Self-Love.”

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Purchase Here - Early Bird Opens Nov 1st

About the Retreat

Self-Love Pole is so excited to welcome you to this unique and sacred retreat, designed to harness radical self-love, held this year in the enchanting high desert of Santa Fe, New Mexico.

Our gathering last year in Joshua Tree was nothing short of magical - filled with connection, laughter, tears, movement, and love for ourselves and one another. In 2026, we return to the desert with even more intention, creativity, and care.

This year’s theme, “Aligned: A Journey to Radical Self-Love,” invites you to embark on an embodied exploration of the seven chakras, from root to crown. Throughout the weekend, you’ll be invited into movement and creative practices that nurture connection, build confidence, and foster expansion of your true and authentic sense of self.

This retreat is about community, not skill level. All bodies, identities, and experiences are welcome. Come as you are and leave feeling aligned.

💫 This year’s retreat features:

  • A thoughtfully curated journey through the chakras designed to bring you into deeper alignment with radical self-love

  • A welcome guide and swag bag

  • A slack channel for retreat communication and connection with other participants

  • Three nights to allow for deep connection, integration, and restoration

  • Eight delicious meals prepared by a personal chef

  • Two specialty pole workshops - no previous experience necessary!

  • Three unique movement and creative expression sessions

  • An opening circle with a sound bath and meditation

  • A closing integration circle

  • Two group excursions exploring the beauty and history of New Mexico

  • Transportation to and from Albuquerque International Airport and to and from excursions

  • A restorative visit to a local spa with ancient mineral waters

  • Shared and private accommodation options in a large estate home

  • Photography sessions to capture the essence of your heart and soul

  • Optional pre event Zoom call to deepen community connection

Early bird pricing runs November 1 - December 31st.

✨ Accessibility is important! A limited number of partial scholarships will be available to those experiencing financial difficulty. Click here to apply for a partial scholarship.

Reserve Your Spot

There’s a reason artists, seekers, and healers have long gathered in Santa Fe. The land is medicine for the soul and a perfect backdrop for deepening radical self-love.

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Schedule of Activities

The retreat schedule continues to unfold with intention. Below is a sneak peek of the flow you can expect. Final details will be shared closer to the retreat.

Thursday, May 14th

  • Shuttle Departs Albuquerque International Airport

  • Check In - Get Settled

  • Dinner

  • Opening Circle, Intention Setting, Sound Bath & Meditation with Indigo Shay (Root Chakra Activation)

Friday, May 15th

  • Yoga for Creativity and Pleasure with Ashley (Sacral Chakra Activation)

  • Breakfast

  • Shuttle leaves for Santa Fe Plaza

  • Santa Fe Plaza/Optional Georgia OKeefe Museum Visit/Lunch at Woolworths/Site Seeing

  • Shuttle Leaves for Santa Fe Pole Arts

  • Storytelling Through Sensual Movement Pole Workshop at Santa Fe Pole Arts with Intensity Bankroll (Solar Plexus Activation)

  • Shuttle leaves for Ojo Santa Fe

  • Ojo Santa Fe Spa Visit (Restorative Integration)

  • Shuttle leaves Ojo Santa Fe

  • Dinner

  • Relax, Open Pole

Saturday, May 16th

  • Breakfast

  • Shuttle leaves for Albuquerque

  • Heart Blossom Pole Workshop at Black Widow Pole Arts with Stella Melina (Heart Chakra Activation)

  • Shuttle leaves for Elena Gallegos Park

  • Picnic Lunch at Elena Gallegos Park

  • Afternoon Practice

  • Shuttle leaves back to Santa Fe

  • Relax, Individual Photo Sessions with Tyee (Throat Chakra Activation)

  • Dinner

  • Specialty Session: Paint and Pole (Creative Integration)

Sunday, May 17th

  • Intuitive Self Defense Morning Session with Chimeka (Third Eye Chakra Activation)

  • Breakfast

  • Closing Session with Indigo Shay (Crown Chakra Activation)

  • Leave to Albuquerque International Airport

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Accommodations

Tucked away on over 5 acres of high desert beauty, this Santa Fe Estate offers 7 bedrooms and 4.5 bathrooms. Surrounded by sweeping views and wide open skies, this remote escape offers unmatched privacy and tranquility.

Options and Pricing

Early Bird Pricing runs November 1 - December 31, 2025

Regular Pricing begins on January 1

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Shared room with a twin-sized bed

You will be in a shared room with your own twin bed

Early Bird Pricing - $1250.00

Regular Pricing - $1450.00

Shared room with a full-sized bed

You will be in a shared room with your own full bed

Early Bird Pricing - $1300.00

Regular Pricing - $1500.00

Private room with a queen-sized bed

This option is for a private room with a queen bed

Book alone or book with a friend, and split the cost

Early Bird Pricing - $2500.00

Regular Pricing - $2900.00

Questions? Concerns?

Please be sure to read our FAQs section below before booking.

New Mexican Cuisine

New Mexican cuisine is incredibly unique as it blends flavors and ingredients inspired by Mexico, Spain and the 22 Pueblo communities that inhabit New Mexico. The retreat menu has been thoughtfully curated to include three breakfasts, two lunches, and three dinners prepared fresh by a professional chef. Please note: The menu provided is a sample and may change to accomodate dietary restrictions and allergies.

Sample Menu

Breakfast

  • Blue Corn Pinon Pancakes with Bacon

  • Potato Chorizo Breakfast Tacos with Fruit

  • Chilaquiles with New Mexico potatoes

Lunch

  • Frito Pies

  • Albuquerque Turkey Picnic Sandwiches

Dinner

  • Green Chile Mac and Cheese, Red Chile Chicken Alfredo Pasta, Salad

  • Red Chile Posole and Green Chile Cornbread

  • Red Chile Enchiladas, Beans, New Mexico Potatoes, Salad

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Love Notes from Previous Participants

“The Self Love Pole Retreat was like a warm hug from the universe during a time when I needed it the most. The connections I made there have only deepened since the retreat and I still carry all the warmth and positivity even after all these months that have passed. I truly felt welcomed and supported by everyone there.”

“This retreat reignited my passion for dance and for pole. I’m excited to start taking classes again. It felt so good to be around amazing dancers with bright, beautiful energy. I am also inspired to incorporate new wellness practices.”

“My favorite part of this retreat was all the laughs and the reprieve I received.”

“I love that all my pole family was able to come together and bond with others doing what we love with the collective goal of self-care.”

“This retreat will forever live in my heart. Getting to connect with new friends and strengthen bonds with existing friends using meditative and grounding activities was so refreshing. I was reminded of the universal language that all artists can speak to one another so effortlessly.”

“The meals were really healthy and delicious! And the workshops/planned activities were very restorative and helpful!”

FAQs

  • This retreat is for anyone who feels called to reconnect with their body, heart, and spirit through movement, community, and soulful practices. You do not need pole dance experience — just a willingness to explore.

    It may be especially resonant if you are:

    • Craving time away from daily responsibilities to rest, recharge, and reset in the grounding beauty of New Mexico

    • Longing to cultivate deeper self-love, confidence, and compassion

    • Curious about using pole, yoga, and other embodied practices as a path of healing and empowerment

    • Moving through life transitions, grief, or transformation and seeking supportive community

    • Ready to experience the desert as a sacred container for creativity, ritual, and soul work

    • Wanting to be witnessed, celebrated, and encouraged by a circle of like-hearted people

  • We all come from unique backgrounds. Hate or intolerance of any kind will not be tolerated. We honor the origins of pole and will not tolerate negative attitudes or judgments of strippers or sex workers. Additionally, we will not tolerate any type of racism, sexism, fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, or any other form of discrimination or bigotry.

  • This is a 420-friendly event. Alcohol will not be provided. You are free to bring your own alcohol, but we ask that you consume responsibly and safely.

  • By attending, assisting with, and/or participating in this retreat, you hereby give consent to and grant the organizers the unrestricted, worldwide, royalty‐free right to use, reproduce, publish and otherwise distribute your name, any photographs, pictures, film, or videotape taken of you and/or provided by you, your presence and/or your likeness for marketing, advertising and in promotional materials in any and all formats, platforms or other media (including digital, print, television, and social media) now existing or hereafter created, and you hereby expressly waive any right of publicity, privacy, compensation, copyright or other ownership right connected to the same. YOU hereby forever release, acquit, and discharge the organizers from any and all claims, causes of action, demands, and liabilities arising out of or in connection with the use of your likeness.

  • By attending this event, you agree to the following terms listed in our liability release form.

    • Group transportation to and from Albuquerque International Sunport (within our shuttle window)

    • Group transportation to excursions and workshops at local area pole studios

    • Shared accommodations in a beautiful Santa Fe setting

    • Daily movement practices including yoga, pole workshops, and restorative sessions

    • Art, ritual, and reflection activities designed to support self-love and soul connection

    • Cultural and nature excursions, such as the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, Santa Fe Plaza, Ojo Santa Fe Spa, and a picnic at Elena Gallegos Open Space

    • Professional photo sessions to capture your embodied expression

    • Evening gatherings including sound bath, specialty workshops, and restorative sessions

    • Nourishing meals shared together in community

  • Flights, personal travel expenses, personal travel insurance, and any extras you’d like outside of scheduled programming. Shuttle service from Albuquerque International Airport is available within our designated time window (details provided upon registration). All meals will be provided but it is recommended that you bring snacks that you may enjoy.

    • Essentials: Open mind & heart, journal + pen, wallet/credit card/cash, phone charger

    • Clothing: Yoga/movement clothes, 3 days of casual wear, swimsuit, warm layers (jacket, hat, scarf), sandals + sneakers/slippers

    • Pole Gear: Pole shoes, knee pads, grip, outfit for photo shoot, optional props

    • Wellness & Toiletries: Toiletries, sunscreen, chapstick, lotion (note: can make pole slippery), allergy meds

    • Comfort Items: Reusable water bottle, yoga mat, sleeping mask, ear plugs, towel, snacks

    • Accessories: Sunglasses, hat, tripod (optional for filming/shoots)

  • Most participants will fly into Albuquerque International Sunport (ABQ). From there, we offer group shuttle service to the retreat space within the pre designated window. You may also rent a car or arrange your own transportation. Santa Fe is a one-hour drive from Albuquerque. You may also wish to drive to New Mexico, however please note from Los Angeles, it is about a 12 hour drive.

  • New Mexico is known as the Land of Enchantment — rich in culture, art, desert landscapes, and healing traditions. The climate can be dry, with warm days and cool nights, so hydration and layering clothing is important. The land itself is deeply soulful and grounding — an ideal backdrop for this retreat. We highly suggest you extend your stay if possible to be able to experience the true enchantment of this special place.

  • If you can extend your trip, we highly recommend it! New Mexico has so much to see and do and you will get a small taste on the excursions during the retreat. If you do decide to extend, here are some recommendations:

    • Santa Fe: art galleries, Meow Wolf, La Choza Restaurant, Cross of the Martyrs, Santa Fe Opera

    • Taos: mountain views, natural hot springs, Taos Pueblo (a UNESCO World Heritage site), Taos Gorge, Orlandos Restaurant

    • Albuquerque: Sandia Mountains, Old Town, Sandia Tram, Indian Pueblo Cultural Center, Route 66, El Patio Restaurant, Durans Central Pharmacy, The Rio Grande Bosque, Petroglyph National Park, Volcanos

    • Other Recommendations: Bandelier National Monument, White Sands, Acoma Sky City Pueblo, Jemez National Forest, Tent Rocks

  • SLP took the feedback from the last retreat to heart. The current retreat is expanding upon our pilot concept to bring you even more value and care. This year’s pricing reflects:

    • An extra night for enhanced connection and integration

    • Traditional New Mexican cuisine prepared by a personal chef who will also join us for the retreat

    • Two workshops at local pole studios

    • Shuttle service to and from Albuquerque International Sunport, to and from area pole studios, and to and from excursions

    • Excursions including a spa visit, a cultural outing, and nature time

    • Professional photo sessions to capture your embodied journey

    • A unique specialty workshop

    • A larger estate house with adequate space and supplies

  • Yes! Self Love Pole is committed to creating a retreat space that feels welcoming and accessible, while also honoring the value of the experience and the care that goes into holding it. Current reduced price offerings are as follows:

    • Early Bird Discounts — reduced pricing for those who register early

    • Partial Scholarships - ranging from 25-50% off to those experiencing financial hardship. Limited number available. Click here to apply for a partial scholarship.

  • If you would like to inquire about a payment plan please email selflovepoleretreat@gmail.com and indicate the following:

    • Which ticket you are interested in purchasing.

    • How many payments you would like to make.